Good Qualities of my ex boss SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam point 31

31. Year 2012 April my wife Muthu Lakshmi was conceived by myself K Pasupathi husband for the fourth time. I direly needed & requested Muthu Lakshmi to keep the child. But she didn't want another pregnancy, labour pain, caesarean delivery. I told her BHEL Ranipet is giving free medical support, CMC Christian Medical College treatment fully free. She can stay in Air Conditioned Room to deliver the baby. But my wife Muthu Lakshmi didn't like the fourth pregnancy. She wanted immediate abortion. She wanted to abort the baby. I couldn't compel her further. As a last attempt, I took her to BHEL Ranipet Township Hospital Dr. Vanaja MBBS Madam. Doctor Madam also requested NOT to go for abortion of this fourth pregnancy. But for that Muthu Lakshmi replied, she has already undergone 3 times pregnancy, one ectopic pregnancy at 3 Base Repair Depot Chandigarh, sector 32 GMCH Government Medical College and Hospital where the 60 days foetus was aborted because of ectopic pregnancy. Out of two fallopian tubes, one right fallopian tube was cut & removed by Major Operation during year 2000 July month. Also her first pregnancy confirmed on 24.03.1999, on her birthday, at Air Force Station Agra, SMQ, Station Medical Quarters, immediately after our marriage on 27.01.1999, resulted in birth our first son, male child, named as Rajkumar on date 16.09.1999, had developed some genetic disease, floppy baby disease, motor neuron disease, Werdnig Hoffman Disease, Autosomal Disease, because of the family history, DNA problem from her father's mother, grandmother side, who gave delivery of 5 sons, all 4 sons of her grandmother died immediately after birth, some babies lived to few months. Only my wife's father, only one son out of 5 sons survived and lived till his age 45. Stating all these information to Dr. Vanaja MBBS Madam, my wife Muthu Lakshmi avoided or wanted adamantly to remove the baby, abort the pregnancy. So our last attempt talks with Muthu Lakshmi ended in decision to go ahead with the abortion. Muthu Lakshmi aborted the foetus at CMC Vellore Air Conditioned Room, free of cost, during April 2022. My ex boss SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam called me on phone, when I was at NTPC Vindhyachal, on official tour & stated that if K Pasupathi wants he can come by Air Ticket, aeroplane, Emergency return back from NTPC Vindhyachal, NTPC Rihand towards BHEL Ranipet and CMC Vellore, to attend & be near my wife Muthu Lakshmi. This words & assurance by my immediate ex boss SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam was really commendable & appreciated with Gratitude & TONS of Thanks even on that date in which he telephoned me and again now by this blog. SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam Sir even visited CMC Vellore Hospital Air Conditioned Room to visit my wife Muthu Lakshmi. That time N Ramasubramanian and mother of Muthu Lakshmi my mother in law Kumara Sundari alias Baby Akka were already present at the CMC Vellore Hospital. SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam informed me that he saw & had few words with Kumara Sundari and N Ramasubramanian and Muthu Lakshmi. Hearing all these reassuring words from my boss SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam, I thanked him a LOT on the phone itself and replied him that I don't want to come back from NTPC Vindhyachal NTPC Rihand. I wanted to finish all the works at NTPC Vindhyachal NTPC Rihand and come by normal Train Ticket casually without any tension of wife undergoing abortion & recuperating at CMC Vellore Hospital. My reply should have made happy my ex boss SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam. He said, OK, it's your decision. Finally I returned from NTPC Vindhyachal NTPC Rihand casually, without much tension, because my wife is already attended by her own mother and elder brother at CMC Vellore Hospital, during April 2012. After talking to Dr. Vanaja MBBS Madam & taken the decision of abortion of the fourth pregnancy, already Muthu Lakshmi alerted & called her mother & elder brother & requested them to be present at CMC Vellore Hospital. This support from family is always needed for any human being in any part of this World or Universe. That is why I am asking for Joint Family System again and again. I proceeded on official tour to NTPC Vindhyachal NTPC Rihand without any mental tension or agitation or anxiety because of the close knit family system, the Love, Care, Affection shown by my mother in law Kumara Sundari & N Ramasubramanian ex machinar. So for me Work is Worship. I always wanted to be an Asset to my Employer, my organisation, BHEL Ranipet. I never wanted to be a liability to my Employer, organisation, BHEL Ranipet. Unfortunately all the events that followed after July 2015 to September 2016 created lot of havoc, chaos, Tragedy in my life & people with whom Muthu Lakshmi interacted. This point 31 is added to the memories with SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam just to inform the Good Qualities of my ex boss SDGM Charles Gandhi Parimalam. Because we must tell the World what is Truth. What is Good. What is Bad. I hope readers will understand the whole aspect of the background stories of Muthu Lakshmi, before rushing to any hasty conclusions about her.

Pasupathi Kumarappan.
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